TheSecretMane® University

Why do most Trichsters can't get help?

It saddens me that there are more Closet Trichotillomania Sufferers out there than there are out-of-their Closet.  Since my first encounter in 2004, I have come across so many.  

• from all walks of life
• all pull different areas
• many have never met another Sufferer in their life

But all have one thing in common.  
"I just want 2 Stop".

As their treatment provider, I am trying my best to offer my help.  I would ask post-sufferers (many of whom I have helped grown out their hair and stop pulling) if they can at least call a new Student who is very interested in TheSecretMane U program but just wants to talk to a post-sufferer.  Whether it be on the phone or email, just help.  Nothing.

THIS HAS 2 STOP.  If you want help, you must become the help, give the help, offer the help.  STOP HIDING.  Rather than constantly asking; "please help me, please help me" ~ haven't you ever consider that if you give help, help will come back to you?

There is a simple rule to follow.  This rule is used in everyone's daily lives.

"What you send out, will come back to you".  

Life is an echo.  so you must....

I have made my program with more rules.  My University helps you, but in turn you must help our Students.  Give and you shall receive.  Do it for the world. Do it for you.  Who cares what people think?  Care more about being proactive knowing that your help will definitely come back to you.  Who knows?  
FREE HAIR, the need 2 stop pulling, may be knocking at your door step.
I totally believe in the POWER OF GIVING.  With all my ♥.  

You have our strength, our empowerment, our guidance and our ♥ to help you through your dark journey into the path of fearless recovery,

           

 

      

 

How do I Earn FREE Hair?

I've had the opportunity to chat with another believer and over 16 years pull-free with no reoccurance of Trichotillomania, Abby Rohrer, a transformational healer; "I’ve learned this in all these years of teaching others, without taking full responsibility for their healing, including payment, people simply do not heal.  When someone else picks up the tab for my programs for the hair puller, those students do not heal. They do not take responsibility, they do not do their healing work, and they do not commit to saving themselves." 

Recalling my own childhood, I had always looked for ways to make money.  I would always seize the opportunity from family and friends.  I remember I had to pull out the grey hairs from my mother's friends and they'd pay me 5 cents per hair. 

Then finally at age 15, I was finally able to get a salary.  I worked 2 jobs.  One was for my internship and the other a weekend job.  As I started getting older, I aquired more expenses.  One was to go to beauty school.  The cost was around $3000-$4000 back then.  My goal was to pay for it in full so I wouldn't have to worry about interest rates.  I have entrepreneurial spirit and I was able to find additional income from sales and proudly even as a teenager I was able to pay in full my own college tuition and beauty school expenses!  That was in the late 80's and early 90's. 

Today we are living in cyber world.  The world is in your keyboard.  There are so many resources out there for funding and raising money to pay for your treatments.  You can choose to be an out-of-their closet trichster and start a fund-rasing or sell something that you're good at making or servicing.  And if you don't have a clue on how to raise money, then take the time to do some research on "how to make money online".

Your parents are wonderful people and they want the best for you.  Take the time and give them the gift of a responsible young adult.  If I did it as a child with limited resources, I'm sure you can too with today's worldwide power-of-the-internet resources! 

I welcome any comments or if you have questions and I'll be very happy to offer my guidance.  Or if you have a successful fund-raising story, please share it.  Healing starts with your responiblity and TheSecretMane University endeavors to empower you on your road to recovery. 

For the Q&A with Abby Rohrer click here.  Photo courtesy inoa.ca

Written by: Charlene Blacer, Principal Director

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